Assertiveness
(Courtesy of http://www.whythailand.net)
Why do guys end up buying drinks for unattractive girls they have no interest in while the girl they really want sits alone in the corner?
(Honest, this happens way more than you would like to believe.)
The problem is that guys do not exercise their power.
A lot of men have it in their heads that if any woman gives them the time of day they need to be polite and let the woman call the shots.
It doesn’t work that way in Asia so leave the Western mindset behind.
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If you see a stunner, don’t feel she’s too beautiful to go with you.
That’s another Western mindset to be left at home.
Girls like to be picked
so don’t be too shy to pick them
Thai girls like a man who takes charge
so don’t be too afraid to do so
Thai girls like to make their man happy by doing what he wants
so tell them what you want
Now, this only tells half the story. It’s not enough to only know how things operate because it will still seem strange and you’ll miss out on opportunities or make mistakes.
And there’s no way to anticipate every situation you might encounter and offer advice.
It’s far better to understand the underlying reasons why things work the way they do.
The basic idea is that a “good woman”, in her eyes, takes enjoyment in knowing her man is enjoying himself, which in turn will please her.
(Is Thailand a great country or what?)
Be assertive: See what this site is about:
http://www.whythailand.net