Why Thailand?
A Guide For An Outrageous Vacation
Me Shy...
Sooner or later, the following scene is guaranteed to play out for
you in Thailand...
The girl dancing up on stage in little more than her birthday suit
is working some serious bumps and grinds, showing off what nature
has given her in the most captivating way.
You're hypnotized. You're mesmerized. You're seduced.
(Actually, what you are is a guy with a major hard-on because she
came over and has been grinding her ass into your crotch for the
last 10 minutes.)
There comes a point when you need to have her. Like right now.
Once back in your room she showers. Upon exiting the bathroom
however, she insists on keeping her towel wrapped protectively
around and, while looking up at you with puppy-dog eyes, innocently
utters the dreaded words: "Me shy"
What in the world is going on?!!
What happened to the outrageous temptress in the bar?
And who the hell is this modest village maiden - as pure
and chaste as new fallen snow?
How you handle the next moment is absolutely critical in how the
night will proceed.
Oh, you'll get laid. No question about that. But whether it's a
night to remember or one you would rather forget depends on what
you do at this point.
This is one of those times when it pays to know what you're doing.
(And *this* is where the Why Thailand book comes in.)
If you become impatient, speak harshly, or roughly rip the
towel away - well, don't expect a great performance (certainly
not the kind of erotic sweaty sex encounter many gentlemen prefer).
"Me shy" doesn't necessarily mean you're stuck with a star fish.
"Me shy" simply means she wants something other than money from
you. And if you give her what she wants, you'll be richly rewarded
with what you want.
IT'S A MATTER OF FACE
What you must understand is that Thai girls don't want to be seen as easy.
What Thai girls really want is to be sweet-talked and to be won
over. To be courted - or at least to go through the motions of it.
(Tip: "Me Shy" girls are super responsive to the magical effects of
Thai sniff kisses.)
It may be playing with semantics, but Thai girls do not look upon
themselves as prostitutes. They want to connect at some level.
It all comes back to Face. Face can drive you crazy with its subtlety. You need to become
sensitive to when face is in play, and you need to know what to do.
Follow the Why Thailand guide and you'll be prepared to deal with
Face - even gaining some for yourself as well.
Get Why Thailand and
Turn Your Thai Holiday into Your Thai Adventure
Best regards,
Steve Seltzer
Author, Why Thailand? A Guide for an Outrageous Vacation
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